Naps

My 8 month old twins are not napping on the same schedule anymore. One is catnapping and the other is taking 1-2 hr naps (unless she gets woken up by her brother). Do I just accept the fact that they are different sleepers or try to correct it??

Different Nap Schedules

Hi! I know this question is a few months old...I just uncovered a problem that was preventing people from answering! I'm so sorry! Are you still having a problem with this? Although kids do have different sleeping habits, I wouldn't give up on getting your son to take better naps like his sister. Have you tried putting them down in separate rooms? Establishing a ritual for naptime? Unfortunately, this is one of the biggest challenges that parents of twins face...getting them both to sleep at the same time! It's often a matter of trial and error.

Susan M. Heim is the author of It's Twins! Parent-to-Parent Advice from Infancy Through Adolescence and Twice the Love: Stories of Inspiration for Families with Twins, Multiples and Singletons.

Nap routines

What sort of routines do you do before naptime? We have the evenings planned out with books, massage, bath, etc. I guess we could always read the same book or something like that? My twins are also eight months.

Thanks.

Naptime routines

Routines before naptime might include a storytime, cozying up on the couch to watch a calming video, having a (nonsugary) snack, listening to music, and so on . . . just something soothing that the kids will look forward to and then associate with taking a nap afterward. 

Susan M. Heim is the author of It's Twins! Parent-to-Parent Advice from Infancy Through Adolescence and Twice the Love: Stories of Inspiration for Families with Twins, Multiples and Singletons.

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