Hello everyone I was wondering if I can get some advice as to how to handle a
situation. Yesterday I was chatting with one of the moms at school and
she mentioned that she was pregnant with twins and she lost one very
early on. I told her my story of how the Dr thought one of the babies
would be absorbed (his words) because it looked too small. Anyway she
said well GOD only gives us what we can handle and I said yes he does.
That's where I should have stopped. Then I added you never know maybe
it would have been sick. As soon as I said it I felt like I said
something I shouldn't have. I couldn't sleep last night thinking about
it and hoping that I didn't offend her. Anyway, I didn't see her this
morning when I dropped of the girls at school and then I asked my hubby
if he thought my comment was offensive and he said Oh YES! I feel
horrible and wish I would have kept my mouth shut. I just don't know
what to say to people when they've suffered a loss and tend to ramble
on. Do any of U think this is as horrible a comment as I think? I'm
planning on approaching her if I see her after school and apologize for
my comment and hope I didn't offend her. Any thoughts?
Thanks everyone
