HELP!!!! At a loss

I am a single mother of 13yr old identical twin girls....They have started to take an interest in boys. One of my daughters has started to Group Date meaning that there is always a group of teens that go to places together. My other daughter is struggling with the issue of not having anyone that is interested in her and it breaks my heart to see her struggling so as a mom I have told her that there is someone out there for her however it may take a little longer for them to find eachother. (IT DID NOT HELP).... They are starting to have their own group of friends and that is not setting well with the daughter that is not dating she has only a few friends and my other daughter has a lot more (HER PERSONALITY IS MORE OUTGOING).... I am struggling through this pain due to my daughter that is not dating starting to have no self confidence she is lways comparing herself to her sister and how everyone else likes her more and they feel she prettier and she is thinner than I am etc. I have never compared them to one another and have raised them that they are individuals and that they are sisters and yes twins however I have always done my best to introduce them by name instead of the twins. My family has always called them the twins however my girls are very strong and always correct them and say yes we are and our names are Mariah and Mackenzie. I honestly am at a loss I need help I am thinking of a family counseling session however they are at the age that it may push her further away. PLEASE IF ANYONE HAS A BOOK OR ADVICE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP>>>>

 

 

 

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