Well this is the story,
My sisters are twins and I the big sister. They have always been competitive. I thought this would change over the years. i am now 40 and they are 37 and they are in the middle of a huge fight. As a young adult I learned to stay out of the battles as they would turn on me and I would be the "evil" one at the end of the fight. They do this to their husbands as they live in the same town. Now it is with their friends. Do twins always do this? They are at a point where they are not speaking and it is over little stuff. Usually it passes after a few days. We are going on months. I don't live near them and fear that even though they live close to one another this will not stop. One babysat for the other while she followed a successful career. Now they don't want each other to see the kids. I hate this but don't know what to do.
big sister
Hi, I am a twin and we have a big sister as well. We are 42 she is 44. They will make up. Twins have a very strong bond, as I am sure you know! I live 2000 miles away from both of my sisters however if I think about my twin I feel I know where and what she is doing. We too tend to be competitive and it can be painful to have someone Soo like you be more successful ( in appearance perhaps ). This may be the stem of thier issues but I assure you they will make up and probably it will happen as if nothing happened. Staying nuetral is wise. Just be there to listen. I know from experience that cousins reuinte regardless of time spent together as children. Our children are all teens and have never lived in the same state yet they are very close ( thank you internet and facebook). good luck
twin communication
Hi, I'm a twin as well, we are 48. We have the same problem of communication. We just don't see eye to eye on things, and then it just turns into an arguement. We can't ever seem to get over this big hurdle...What about you? I'm the younger twin, by 4 minutes, and she's always been bossy and I guess now that we are older and living near each other..it seems we always are arguing over something. It's getting very frustrating..so you have any advice..or where to find some answers? Thanks, would love to chat to you..
Twin bond
Hi, I am 28 yrs old and I am a twin. Usually the people you LOVE the most hurt you the worse.
Even though they fight and the don't want to see each other eventually they will re-connect because of the strong bond and connection that twins have. My sister is a part of me and i love her but there are times where I would like to strangle her but we get over it.
Hope this helps!
twin bond
Hi, I am a twin too..we are 48 and we STILL have this big communication problem!! We argue most of the time and we never seem to be able to get to a place where we can really talk like I do with other people. It's very frustrating and yeah I'd love to strangle her sometimes too...but we do eventually get over it..for a while. It's usually over, her idea of what she thinks I need to be doing. But we have different schedules and ideas of what our priorities are. Would love to talk to to other twins with this problem.